water birth
Finally after several months I found out that nearby can give birth in water, and I am informed in this regard.
My mother says: "After so many months that follow you there, change gynecologist and midwife is not as legitimate. "He did not understand that I, unlike you, I have the balls to make decisions for my son who depend on me and not be influenced by what they think about my grandmother, aunts, cousins , friends, daughters, girlfriends ...-_-I admit that once again the only impediment to my happiness is her and her paranoia. I would not get involved, to proceed, the esults if I do as it wishes and in general to break the so-called.
In a little 'will start to have fear of childbirth (it seems logical to me!) and I need quiet and surrounded by people that I take away the anxiety, not that add me, but I already know in advance that I find myself among people Which brings me quickly, I put forward, just think the worst, etc.. ... Then I decided that I will avoid people neurotic anxiety that if the family will send them to fuck off and that if my mother does cause irritability, heartburn, or panic attacks, hunting, home to kick your ass. If you were to try to impose something about my son, you better be losses to the extent that we can not find not even the dudes who saw it. Will I have bad luck
that because we live far away, will come to my house hoping to be helpful (this is not anything wrong, every mother would find her daughter and I as a daughter I can not say to look for a hotel but are morally obligated to host it this makes me like it or not) but I can realize the dream in which I see myself coming home from the hospital with the baby in her arms and at least the first night and spend it for themselves: me, my husband and our baby . After all, what is most intimate of a family that has just formed?
And at least the first night I want to feel free to get up to nurse or to check how he is, without seeing that 'ghost' of my mother who gets up with his usual air of "oh my God, who is dying?" I say "What happened?" It is not right? " and the like.
The reasoning absurd "yesterday", just to let you know that Matt will be fuck grandmother: until a few days ago I had alarmingly swollen feet and, apart from the fact that it is normal in pregnancy, since I know I have made the morphological gestosis a risk of 30% because my uterine vessels have increased resistance (ie, are more concerned with working for the good of my uterus that for the sake of my child) and if I had gestosis would risk serious circulatory problems (in severe cases happen to have vision problems or blindness due to a much smaller brain haemorrhage, in those more serious can happen is the child or the mother to die). But you can rest assured that nothing will happen to me all this because I have low blood pressure and I'm really only at risk women with high blood pressure. However, five days from now, suddenly, for no apparent reason, my feet have dried out, legs relaxed, the capillaries are back in their place ... in practice at any moment my blood circulation is going great and I'm not surprised that these increased resistances no longer exist. As if all of a sudden my body has been released. ^ ^
And my mother instead of saying: That's great, finally! if n'esce with: "How come? Do not you see if you go to the doctor to ask what happened, why you had gone flat feet?"
you realize that is psychopathic? A person goes to a doctor only: when he is wrong when it worse, or for prevention, no one goes to the doctor to ask concerned about "how I feel better?" plus such a thing would be taken for a ride and I find that it is granted only to miracles, those who stand with one foot in the grave and suddenly cured forever. The others are worried by the doctor to feel better, are to be sent to a psychologist and the psychologist should send them to hell.
Another thing that made me turn yesterday that said, "Well, it means that there you will take responsibility [note: the birth in water], that is a decision you make ciui load you and your husband." E 'ovvvio! It took that long to understand that the baby is ours and not the parentame? That of his birth, growth, support ... we only scrigarcela the two of us parents? To be more precise, as regards pregnancy and childbirth, the law has only what I tell my husband and I may even be contrary, I should not slam anything that you think anyone outside of me, if I take a decision to this effect for the good of my son is only mine!
I am proud of myself for having said that giving birth in water is better especially for the child, because it is less traumatic and the damage sustained me in his arms while we are still connected by the umbilical cord, instead of immediately disconnect it and take it away to wash ridarmelo and after several minutes, but that in November I asked the midwife if they did here, and she said no (otherwise it is obvious that I would not have done here, but follow directly from the other hospital!) and that because I think it is better for him to be born there, I do not care about the bad manners to look elsewhere now prove that I am about to enter the eighth month.
I think when my mother is here with me, I'll read this blog. Whether you realize! It grow! Because she is starting to have all those fixations that made me feel so much shit on those grandparents who are no more. And my father is becoming like it was his paternal grandfather, the patriarch of the cabbage which wanted to decide everything about everybody and it was clear that he considered the children's property that would belong to the death, and he another idiot who is not and has not requested the transfer leaving him alone with his selfishness, instead of obeying.
Well, it must be because of these balls dizziness that last night I have a slight headache. This morning, however, is more intense and I go to bed again for at least half an hour.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Is Teaching Solutions
Petition to respect the feelings of children in care
V. above, most often the children for adoption are in foster care for a time that is not short, with the result that becomes attached to the foster family, and family to him. Then when the time comes to adoption, this separation even more painful than the family of origin.
The summary the petition is to allow foster families to at least maintain contact with the child being taken away from them to assign it to a new family (which he sure will not be that good, but one that now sees as his family).
V. above, most often the children for adoption are in foster care for a time that is not short, with the result that becomes attached to the foster family, and family to him. Then when the time comes to adoption, this separation even more painful than the family of origin.
The summary the petition is to allow foster families to at least maintain contact with the child being taken away from them to assign it to a new family (which he sure will not be that good, but one that now sees as his family).
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Primary Sector Jobs In Brazil
first purchases for him
I started taking some things for when he is born as well as those required by the hospital than those that I find pretty or useful even though I is requested.
So a few days ago I learned one thing: long socks for babies to be put under the gaiter because they serve to keep it warmer, lower ones and are swaged to put socks as normal or above gaiter to keep it warm and keep them locked (by force to move the legs if they climb inside ^ ^). I had them taken of both types I did not know if there was any difference or not. If you want to show you the photos. :)
For the hospital, in theory, but do not need the pacifier in the case were crying or had difficulty falling asleep, he can use a rubber with a flat tip size 0 +.
say that for the first day all accessories must be 0 +. even the bottle is not needed unless you are forced to give the formula or if a woman does not have so much milk that the baby can not make it to eat everything. In this If you can take the milk out more with the breast pump and store in refrigerator (use within twenty-four hours). But I wonder if it would be much better for those who have too much milk, consider who can not hope to drink all the child, and that collected him to the hospital for premature babies and those women who unfortunately have little milk and nothing. For now
other little extra that I have taken the portaciuccio (because I can not carry it in bulk) and the clip to keep the clothes.
One thing I learned is that instead for the overalls for premature babies with fewer seams make them possible, and monochrome or perhaps with the printed designs are too delicate for them so they never even embroidery.
Oh, now I remember that I still have to buy a fleece cover on which I want to put applications in cloth to the list. I hope to find cream-colored, white or yellowish. For white or cream I want to make patterns with a predominance of blue, pale yellow if I'm a stylized tree. The most beautiful I had seen from Oviesse and they cost too little (half of what I paid for the cloth to the list: P), while in the other stores and saw that hairy celestino Baby grayish or that celestino faded, I do not like. If you can not find one a nice color or a quality that he does not come the goose bumps all over me already, in a store I saw one normally does not know whether to single or double bed is a beautiful blue and take ; that. Azure what design?
Well, I have time to think! Born in August and covers fleece I will need in the fall. ^ ^
I took strips of cloth to the list of 10 cm each, spending € 1 strip but that will have a dozen colors that I will be more than enough to practice and to create applications. When you take your hand, I intend to make something bigger as a bag for me. I'm glad I got a little of each color.
you soon!
Eventually I found the cover of light green and I got it. It 's a beautiful color: very clear, to yellow, lime green I call clear; ^ _ ^ more but less eye-catching bright yellow.
I started taking some things for when he is born as well as those required by the hospital than those that I find pretty or useful even though I is requested.
So a few days ago I learned one thing: long socks for babies to be put under the gaiter because they serve to keep it warmer, lower ones and are swaged to put socks as normal or above gaiter to keep it warm and keep them locked (by force to move the legs if they climb inside ^ ^). I had them taken of both types I did not know if there was any difference or not. If you want to show you the photos. :)
For the hospital, in theory, but do not need the pacifier in the case were crying or had difficulty falling asleep, he can use a rubber with a flat tip size 0 +.
say that for the first day all accessories must be 0 +. even the bottle is not needed unless you are forced to give the formula or if a woman does not have so much milk that the baby can not make it to eat everything. In this If you can take the milk out more with the breast pump and store in refrigerator (use within twenty-four hours). But I wonder if it would be much better for those who have too much milk, consider who can not hope to drink all the child, and that collected him to the hospital for premature babies and those women who unfortunately have little milk and nothing. For now
other little extra that I have taken the portaciuccio (because I can not carry it in bulk) and the clip to keep the clothes.
One thing I learned is that instead for the overalls for premature babies with fewer seams make them possible, and monochrome or perhaps with the printed designs are too delicate for them so they never even embroidery.
Oh, now I remember that I still have to buy a fleece cover on which I want to put applications in cloth to the list. I hope to find cream-colored, white or yellowish. For white or cream I want to make patterns with a predominance of blue, pale yellow if I'm a stylized tree. The most beautiful I had seen from Oviesse and they cost too little (half of what I paid for the cloth to the list: P), while in the other stores and saw that hairy celestino Baby grayish or that celestino faded, I do not like. If you can not find one a nice color or a quality that he does not come the goose bumps all over me already, in a store I saw one normally does not know whether to single or double bed is a beautiful blue and take ; that. Azure what design?
Well, I have time to think! Born in August and covers fleece I will need in the fall. ^ ^
I took strips of cloth to the list of 10 cm each, spending € 1 strip but that will have a dozen colors that I will be more than enough to practice and to create applications. When you take your hand, I intend to make something bigger as a bag for me. I'm glad I got a little of each color.
you soon!
Eventually I found the cover of light green and I got it. It 's a beautiful color: very clear, to yellow, lime green I call clear; ^ _ ^ more but less eye-catching bright yellow.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Name For Cultural Fest
belts
I open this blog at the end of the second trimester of pregnancy. Will update every time there is news, however, during the period in which the child will be born can not connect for some time.
Until I hold her hand with the blog: p first place an object very important but virtually unknown, so much so that I only bought Yesterday: an adapter with safety belts for pregnant , very useful to avoid the risk of miscarriage due to an accident. http://www.nidodigrazia.it/prodotti/BeSafe_Pregnant_tendicintura_auto_per_gestanti/sga7110/11/58
If I had ten days ago, driving the most quiet I would do. E 'from November to avoid driving to keep the belt looser, and put his hands underneath it to protect my child.
Yesterday I went to a meeting in a shop Prénatal (this kind of meetings with experts will organize all the shops and Prénatal Chicco, perhaps in other specialized childcare, women are free and open wings pending and future sets of parents. Council to inquire because they give a lot of useful tips) and finally I have put off the question to ask how I could solve the problem of safety belts.
Well, I see that I am surrounded by people who never thought they would not . When I asked the midwife, he replied: "The belts are what we save lives," the tone of those who wanted to say that it seemed strange that I did not think first of all to myself. Ok, I know that seat belts save lives, but I am convinced that life is more important than the fetus, his mother, but they (doctors and midwives) assume that life is more important than the mother, because they are required by law to safeguard the first woman (why is an adult and understand?) on Now I am silent then be likely to cause controversy, I will I speak to the contrary. For years I had thought to sign a paper stating that if you had to choose between my baby and I should choose him because he has the same opportunity to get a life. Apparently such a thing can not be done.
I open this blog at the end of the second trimester of pregnancy. Will update every time there is news, however, during the period in which the child will be born can not connect for some time.
Until I hold her hand with the blog: p first place an object very important but virtually unknown, so much so that I only bought Yesterday: an adapter with safety belts for pregnant , very useful to avoid the risk of miscarriage due to an accident. http://www.nidodigrazia.it/prodotti/BeSafe_Pregnant_tendicintura_auto_per_gestanti/sga7110/11/58
If I had ten days ago, driving the most quiet I would do. E 'from November to avoid driving to keep the belt looser, and put his hands underneath it to protect my child.
Yesterday I went to a meeting in a shop Prénatal (this kind of meetings with experts will organize all the shops and Prénatal Chicco, perhaps in other specialized childcare, women are free and open wings pending and future sets of parents. Council to inquire because they give a lot of useful tips) and finally I have put off the question to ask how I could solve the problem of safety belts.
Well, I see that I am surrounded by people who never thought they would not . When I asked the midwife, he replied: "The belts are what we save lives," the tone of those who wanted to say that it seemed strange that I did not think first of all to myself. Ok, I know that seat belts save lives, but I am convinced that life is more important than the fetus, his mother, but they (doctors and midwives) assume that life is more important than the mother, because they are required by law to safeguard the first woman (why is an adult and understand?) on Now I am silent then be likely to cause controversy, I will I speak to the contrary. For years I had thought to sign a paper stating that if you had to choose between my baby and I should choose him because he has the same opportunity to get a life. Apparently such a thing can not be done.
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